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You never know what someone is going through, so be kind meaning

We often listen this statement from everyone that, “you never know what someone is going through, so be kind”.

Actually this is 100 percent true because we always ponder that we are in the difficulty and actually we are only suffering, no body cares us.

To give the right answer, i am going to share my real life experience with you.

When i was young, i always question my parents, and i compare my parents with my friends parent. When my father was unable to meet by demands i used to cry, feel lonely and complaint alot. But then also anyhow my father manage me things and fullfill my demands, he fulfilled my demands late, but anyhow he did.

After some time, when i got married, today my children are young, they are going to schools and they demand alot. And now i got realised that, how sacrifice my father had done in the past by fulfilling my needs.

And today i always read that line “you never know what someone is going through, so be kind”.

I have a font of writing diary and i wrote this article in my diary, but unfortunately my child read it, and started crying after reading the whole struggle story of my father. Today, he never demand many things and understand my situation. But i always give my best to take proper care of my children because i love them like how my father used to love me, when i was young.

The meaning of you never know what someone is going through is, we demand abundance of things from our parents or partner without looking their struggles or situations. But we will only realise this when our children will demand from us and sometimes we will unable to meet their need.